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Welcome to my Domain
Welcome to my Domain

Monday 13 July 2015

Top 10 Signs you are Too Old for BDSM (a little chuckle)

10. Sensory deprivation is when your Dom hides your hearing aid batteries.



9. Your nipple clamps have training wheels.



8. Edge play is standing by the microwave with a pacemaker.



7. When you tell your sub to get the cane, she has to specify "walking" or
"beating".



6. You can't tell the difference between your tattoos and your age spots.



5. You shout "One, two, three, CLEAR!" for electrical play.



4. Your idea of breath play is when your wheelchair runs over your oxygen
hose.



3. Your idea of suspension is an UltraLift bra.



2. You hold the paddle and say, "You're younger than me....back into the
paddle ....HARD!"



 And the Number One way to tell you might be too old for BDSM:



1. Age play really is 24/7.


(This is not my creation)

Sunday 7 June 2015

Chores?

Chores... love them, or hate them?  Why?




You're not interested in undertaking domestic chores for your Dominant / Mistress because there not 'fun' enough?  Because they don't put you in the submissive mindset unlike licking boots, feet, cunt or arse...would.




Share your thoughts please.



Saturday 30 May 2015

S&M anyone?

Whose interested in being chained and caned?  Anyone?

PS:  Unfortunately it must be stated that PIV sex is not part of my scenes.

Thursday 28 May 2015

A game

A group of submissives/slaves are commanded to masturbate over a large biscuit that is set on a small table that they are all standing around.  The last submissive/slave to orgasm wins the biscuit and has to eat it.


Simple, and a fun game for a FemDom Event?

Sunday 24 May 2015

Hydraulic torture - predicament bondage

A male slave is tightly bound in a chair. An inflatable butt plug is first inserted.

The male slave is fitted with a condom catheter which drains to a reservoir on the floor. Every couple of hours a pump on a timer empties the floor reservoir into an enema bag on a pole behind the chair.

The enema bag is, of course, plumbed to the butt plug.

So over time the inflatable plug begins to fill. Eventually the sub will try desperately not to pee so the plug stops growing. And once they have to let go it's just a matter of time before the plug gets even larger.


Rinse and repeat.

Thursday 14 May 2015

14 May 2015

Good evening
Well here I am again after such a while.

I have been studying...and almost completed the certificate.

I have been appointed to a management position at a new workplace.

I have focussed and nurtured my whole family and submissive, and they in turn, have returned the love.

Life has been pretty busy for Ms Neta but I am almost at the end of the busy period, and can focus on interacting fully in my Kink life, and fulfilling my Vanilla life at the same time...without any tedious distractions.

I am a Woman who goes out and gets what she needs and wants.  I don't like to be fucked around by anyone... and will never permit that to happen again.




Saturday 25 April 2015

Amanda Jackson

This is the completed video created by Alex Chapmon.  Please click link and view.  Its about 45 minutes in length.  Enjoy

Amanda Jackson - Controversial Dominatrix

Monday 6 April 2015

ClubFEM Tas and FDCT Spanking Party 28/3/15

My last post for a month, folks.  Focussing on a project which needs my full attention.  Kink can be so distracting at times.

So let me share a little about the Spanking Party I organised for my ClubFEM Tas and FDCT members.

We had 4 Mistresses present and 5 submissives.  2 Mistresses pulled out - health issues, and one sub belonged to one of the Mistresses.

That's OK though because we all had an enjoyable time.

All day I prepared my downstairs area for the PP.  My family went away for the night so I was left in peace to create a Kink environment for my guests.  It was bloody hardwork let me tell you people but I was blessed to have my bill over to assist me.  My Kink Sister arrived later in the arvo but there wasnt too much for her to do due to my efficiency.

Guests starting arriving at 6.30pm.
First guest was a male submissive
Next to arrive was a Dominant
next was a Dominant and her submissive
next was a male submissive
and the last guest was a male submissive (kinkster)

9 of us were present.

We all stood around in the lounge room area whilst My Mistress, an Australian movie, played in the background.  Fuck - The Secretary or The Story of O - we are Female Dominants and male submissives / slaves - who wants a male dominated themed movie playing.  No thank you.

We chatted for a while, then all moved down to the Mz Neta's Special Dungeon.

Let me say folks, the pics I posted do not do it justice.  It really had a fabulous atmosphere about it and it looked fucken great!

Candles, music, burgundy everywhere, equipment for use, implements hanging around the room for use, chairs for comfort and most important, people wanting to give/receive spankings!

submissives were allocated to those Dominants who did not have a partner.  And then the fun began.  There was hand spanking, paddling, flogging on the cross, a male was placed in a dog cage to wait for his turn to be spanked.  The workbench, massage table, spanking bench, cage, St Andrews Cross were all in use.  It was well worth the hard work both bill and I put in to setting up the dungeon.

We had an absolute ball although I will say we could have done with some more bodies but other than that the people who were present made the most of it in between kinky conversation.

All the Mistresses looked terrific and the males looked fabulous... naked.

Last guest left at 12.00am.

I didn't get to bed until 1.00am due to the dismantling of most of the equipment.  What a weekend :)

It really is wonderful to bring together likeminded.  Such a shame people don't take the step to get more involved with their kink rather than hiding away.

Thanks for reading, folks.


My Throne - refurbished

Hi All
This is my newly-upholstered Throne undertaken by my submissive, bill.

A month before the Spanking Party late March 2015, bill suggested he take away my throne (on left) to upholster it, and perhaps paint it darker - more suited for the Goddess, that is Mz Neta.

I shrugged and said that would be lovely, bill.

The changes he made to the throne were using a darker stain - I think red mahogany, with black covering rather than the vinyl look shown in the original pic (left).

There were a few photos taken of me in it from the Spanking Party, and let me tell you folks, I looked fabulously regal in my newly upholstered and stained Throne.  Bless my submissive for wanting to me to be comfortable, and look even more fabulous.

Sunday 22 March 2015

Thursday 19 March 2015

Mantra

Please feel free to use the following mantra for your submissive/slave or modify it to suit your dynamic:

“Submission is my goal,
surrender is my path,
punishment is my mercy,
obedience is a privilege,

resistance is self-destruction”

Wednesday 18 March 2015

Owner of my cock


My submissive J had an audit at his workplace today, rather stressful, as I went through something similar yesterday.  So in order for him to feel less nervous, I felt my presence was needed.  The requirement was for him to select a lovely black shoelace, tied firmly around my cock and balls so when he moved around his offices whilst dealing with officials, he could feel me with every movement.  Delicious looking cock? Right?  When my cock is full size, 9.5 inches.

Anyway, the audit went well, my sub J was calmer, and now his next project commences for a period of 2 weeks.  He is such a busy male but it keeps the connection strong.


Monday 16 March 2015

Which one?


I am looking to purchase one of these corsets, which one can you imagine me wearing?

Monday 16/3/15

Good evening All

Its Monday.  Wow.  An extremely busy day today although tomorrow will be busier due to a happening at my workplace.

Anyway lets talk about me, and how focussed I am in enjoying my kink life.

I have my Spanking Party next week.

12 guests will be present.  5 Dominants and 7 submissives/slaves.

My primary submissive is building a spanking horse and is very busy ensuring it will be ready in time.

My Special Dungeon will be decorated in Burgundy tones.

Equipment for use at the Party will be a St Andrew's Cross, 2 spanking benches, massage table, and a couch for OTK.

I am also going to have chains hanging from the wall for anyone who wishes to chain their sub/slave for display.

I have also added a new piece of equipment to my belongings, a pet cage to house a willing male.  Lucky him.

You like?

I look forward to posting pics of my Special Dungeon in two weeks' time.

Meanwhile, All, pop by any time to read my blog to see what Mz Neta has been up to...

Enjoy your evening!!

Tuesday 10 March 2015

Future play with hotness

OK I have met a hot young male.  Absolutely delicious.

He is seeking a very hard spanking and some wicked cock torture.

He is athletic, handsome, blonde, blue-eyed, creative, punctual, respectful and I am looking forward to getting my hands and chains on his beautiful body.

Once I play with him, I will write a post about what primal play ensued.. I might have to censor it though *hehe*.

I love hotness!  And, I am drawn to beautiful alpha males who submit to Beautiful Strong Women.

Update:

The chap was a fail.  He was only after a fuck, which is fine if it is coupled with genuine service.  Amusingly, I scared him off when I asked him to learn 3 slave positions.  He ran like a scared little bitch.  Hehe, gosh some males are just so babyish.  I said I was serious about D/s and Kink... why don't males believe what you say *chuckles*.  Next!

My blogs

Hi All
These are my blogs for your wicked viewing.  Actually they are quite tame, nothing too insane going on in them  :)


http://msnetaerotica.blogspot.com.au/ 




http://clubfemtasmania.blogspot.com.au/



Sunday 8 March 2015

The position

This is the position I look forward to putting one of my males in to, sometime in the near future.  Assume the position, bitch!

Meeting a potential

I was spontaneous today.

I went on a site I'm on, browsing, and I received an email from a chap.  I viewed his profile and he was very attractive.

Before I knew it, he sent me an email.  Most males are intimidated by my profile and tend to to skult off, fearful of rejection.

Anyway after a couple of email messages we both agreed to meet for a coffee today.  Yes, Ms Neta, was spontaneous.  I am planner usually but I thought his email was pleasant, he was my type of male, and he was keen to meet without procrastinating.

I love a male who is not afraid to meet me, connect me.  I am not that scary... ;)

We met at a cafe at 2.00pm.  He was punctual.  Oh bless a gorgeous male who believes in punctuality.  Bonus points to him.

When I saw him walk in, Ms Neta did a double-take.  A surfie-type male and pure athletism oozing from him.

We shook hands, and moved to the cafe.

Right off the bat, he offered to buy me a coffee.  How sweet.  Bless his initiative and generosity.  Yes, he impressed me.

We chatted for an hour about what my expectations in a relationship with me would be like.  He was amenable, even as a newcomer to the kink scene.

My email address was given to him, and an hour later he sent me a wonderful email about how he felt about our meeting.  It was honest, and delicious.

We exchanged mobile numbers and chatted a little about when we would meet up again.  However due to some other commitments I have, we won't be meeting for another week or so but I look forward to the intensity of our meeting when it finally happens.

So nice to meet a male who is refreshing, focussed with an alpha quality about him.

We will see how things progress...oh did I mention, he is younger than me and very attractive.


FemDom Friendship

I had a wonderful chat with another FemDom yesterday and we laughed quite a lot at the end.

We found out we had a lot in common as we tend to be women that don't expose too much of our inner thoughts to others unless they are close.

Both, She and I are in open relationships...our males accept we Lead.

We had a laugh about when we experienced fucking another person recently.  She shared her experience, and I shared mine.  We roared with laughter at the silliness of what happened during the 'sexual' time, people were turning in the street to look at us.

All I can say people is that, I'm not the only one who gets nervous when fucking another.  Ha!

Don't you just love Sisterhood!  The sharing.

I have my Kink Sister.  That woman is awesome.  I am blessed to have her in my life too.

In fact, I am blessed to have 2 other Women in my life who are similar thinking to me.

We are awesome!!


Saturday 7 March 2015

Fetish Delivery System

This is a phrase that is on the increase on a site I frequent!

I have used it recently, of late, in posts due to the numerous males coming my way not understanding what submission really is.  It is fucken tedious to try to explain to these males that licking my cunt, fucking me in the missionary position, licking my boots, fucking me anally, drinking my piss, sucking their cock IS NOT MY KIND OF KINKY!!  Holy shit, males, what the fuck is going on with you.

Do some research.  If you are really interested in serving a Female Dominant, do your fucken research.  It is more than sex... so much more.  

Go do your research before approaching a Female Dominant and stating you want to serve her... with your tongue, or cock.

Most Lifestyle Dominants ARE NOT Fetish Delivery systems.  We want to receive service, servitude in many ways, and in most cases, sex is at the bottom of the list.  If you want to enjoy your sexual kinks, visit a Sex Worker or if you want to explore YOUR kinks and fetishes, there are plenty of Pro Dominants around to service you.

NB:  If I want sex, you will goddamn know, and I will choose when I want it, and how I want it.

Stop bothering us Lifestylers who are looking for genuine male or female submissives to serve in accordance to their wants and needs.  You serve us properly, we will explore your kinks on our terms. Female Domination, not dominating/directing Female Dominants to what you want/need.  

We make the rules, you follow them.  If you don't like it, go find someone who will accommodate you.

I am happy to play on a casual basis on rare occasions ON MY TERMS.  I am a nurturing sadist.  You accept pain for my pleasure, and if I feel like it, I may have some fun with you... but only if I want to, not because you whine, beg or plead or throw out superficial accolades to stroke my ego. Be genuine, Be authentic in your service to Dominant Women, to me.  I can see through bullshit, most times.  

And, please keep in mind if you do approach me, know that I am not anyone's Fetish Delivery system.  Fuck that shit!!

I have spoken.  And now you know my stance!  

This...


Friday 6 March 2015

Back to normal viewing ;)

Hi Everyone
It appears Blogger, due to thousands of users protesting against the censoring policy for bloggers, is no longer going to take any action.

THANK FUCKEN GODDESS FOR THAT!!

So, people I will continue to blog my usual stuff when time permits!


Mz Neta

Tuesday 24 February 2015

ANNOUNCEMENT: Going Private...soon

Good evening

It appears that effective 23 March 2015, any sexual content in my blog will be censored by BLOGGER.

The alternative is to remove the sexually explicit content or change my blogs to private setting. 

I have decided to turn my blogs to PRIVATE SETTING in a week’s time.

If you wish to continue to follow my blogs, comment on this post leaving your email addy and I will add you into the private settings, otherwise, I bid you all farewell.  And, thanks for following.


Ms / Mz / Mistress Neta

~ With Dark Romance in Mind… always ~

Saturday 21 February 2015

Advertising for a new boy (expanded version)

What I seek in my future male submissive/slave:
  • Single males, or males whose partner/wife is aware of their kinky interests and has given them permission to explore
  • Preferably lives in Hobart vicinity
  • Aged between 30 - 50 years of age
  • Muscular, athletic, fit
  • Tall in height - minimum height: 5'10" 
  • Good sized cock - 7 inches minimum
  • Light Drinker
  • Non-smoker
  • Has a penchant for domestic servitude
  • Interested in foot worship/massage
  • Has a tolerance to accept some pain (through impact play)
  • Is genuine in their submission
  • Charismatic and a sense of humour would be most delightful
I am a flexible Woman, as long as you meet 80% of the criteria above although points 1 and 2 are essential elements in what I seek for a compatible submissive to serve me.


~ Ms / Mz / Mistress Neta ~

~ Welcome ~

Welcome

Cropping or Paddling?  Which one appeals to you?
Or, perhaps Boot worship?

5 Ways to Sexually Open a Women (and Keep Her There)


Not my writing, thought I would share. Love her wisdom!
Article by Kim Anaimi [kimanami.com]

********************************

You’ve all heard the phrase: “Behind every good man is a woman.”

Well, behind every good woman is a man, on his knees, ferociously thrusting and giving her everything he’s got.

It makes her a better woman.

And she in turn makes him a better man.

When I hear a man complaining about his clingy, bitchy partner, all that tells me is that he isn’t fucking her enough.

The fucking needs to be thorough, artful and heart-ful.

Otherwise, the woman will show signs of FUKME.

And everyone will suffer.

Here are five things a guy can do that will eradicate FUKME in the woman:

1) F*ck her frequently.

If I had to give you an honest answer about how often is ideal, i’d say twice a day: morning and evening: The Sex Prayer.

That’s my ideal, anyway, and I like the concept of the morning and evening rejuvenation.
A constant source of nourishment.

Like food.

You connect to start out the day, revitalizing each other. And you reconnect in the evening to soothe after the long day and send you into the dream state with serenity.

I know that might seem like a lot for some people.

Find what works for you.

Though it’s probably more than what you think.

And, before you go telling me that you have work, children and chores and “Who has the time?” let me tell you about a couple who recently came to one of my retreats.

They have five children, both work at extremely high-powered jobs (he is a CEO and she is also high-ranking corporate) and THEY. HAVE. SEX. EVERY. DAY.

I do not accept your excuses.

2) F*ck her for long enough.

How long is long enough?

I personally like the long, all-night or at-least-several-hours haul, but shorter sessions have their place too.

Especially if you are having frequent sex (see above), then shorter sessions are perfectly acceptable.
For women to reach the deeper levels of vaginal orgasms, they need extended intercourse. A minimum of 15 minutes, and ideally up to 30 or 45.

You’ve heard me address repeatedly how vaginal orgasms are where it’s at.

These are the orgasms that truly lead a woman into well-f**ked territory.

This is the territory where she gives back to you tenfold and truly becomes the good woman behind the man.

It’s worth putting in the time to get her there.

3) F*ck her with heart.

Anyone can move their hips up and down and come in 60 seconds.

If you want to open your woman so she becomes the being who supports you in your life, gives to you unconditionally and energizes rather than depletes you, you need to fuck her with heart.

If you fuck her unconsciously, with your only goal your own orgasm, she’ll build up resentment towards you and that will eat at your relationship.

It will show up in nagging, depression, and sarcastic comments.

Because she doesn’t feel loved.

You need to love her with your cock and your heart.

Penetrate her core with your cock.

Ideally at the same time.

Look into her eyes and adore her as you fuck her.

You can fuck her fast and furious, so long as your heart is in the game.  She’ll feel it.

4) Keep the sexual simmer going in-between sex. 



It’s so crucial as a man to understand that once a woman opens to you in deep sex—her heart is open, her vagina is open—you need to show that you are there to catch her as she falls.

Even if you’ve been together for a long time. hopefully you are hitting new sexual peaks all the time, and new levels of vulnerability.

So this is still a necessary thing.

The best thing you can do as a man to nurture this growth is to let your woman know you are there. Text her. Email her. Tell her you love her and how beautiful she is. Tell her how much she means to you.

She’ll feel safe to remain open and the crazy, amazing places you get to during cataclysmic sex will build upon each other, strengthening your relationship over time.

5) Build the simmer during sex—otherwise known as foreplay.

I saw a brilliant headline the other day: “Most women fake orgasms because most men fake foreplay.”

There is a saying in old Taoist sexual writings: Sexually speaking, men are like fire: quick to ignite and quick to extinguish. Women, on the other hand, are like water: slow to boil but they keep on boiling.

The key is for men to be able to last long enough to get a woman to boiling.

Not only is foreplay touching other parts of the body besides the breasts or vagina, it’s even about tossing out a few smaller orgasms before going for the bigger, deeper ones.

In an ideal sex session, a woman has at least a few orgasms.

And in the land of not just having quick, easy orgasms but orgasms that are full-body ecstasy and change your life, we have a different approach here.

We want both of your orgasms to energize you, connect you and be the source of your nourishment. And, like any gourmet meal, that takes some cultivation.


Monday 16 February 2015

Results from my recent BDSM Test proved quite surprising...

100% Sadist
96% Master/Mistress
93% Daddy/Mommy
91% Primal (Predator)
89% Degradation Giver
85% Dominant
75% Experimentalist
68% Primal (Prey)
55% Bondage Giver
46% Voyeur
43% Girl/Boy
43% Masochist
30% Bondage Receiver
23% Pervert
21% Degradation Receiver
21% Non-monogamist
21% Vanilla
14% Brat Tamer
9% Switch
8% Submissive
4% Exhibitionist
4% Slave
3% All-Rounder
3% Brat 

Sunday 15 February 2015

Worship my cock...

Kneel and Yearn

What I seek

I have said in a previous post on this blog I am seeking a submissive or slave.  A genuine male who is authentic.

For those who dream of serving me, it must be stated right now, you need to be attractive to me, and I mean very attractive.  No beard, slim, fit, healthy and clean are the physical requirements for the male I seek.

I am not interested in a male who is a rutting bitch... well only when I require him to be rutting, I seek a quality male who does as he is commanded.  He will be respectful and chilvarous towards me at all times whilst in service to me.

He will submit to me because that is what he wants, desires and he knows he will be loved and nurtured in my realm.  My future submissive or slave will be safe with Mz Neta, his one and only Mistress thereafter.

Friday 6 February 2015

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SEEKING primal-oriented slave or submissive to service on a casual basis - regular Fridays.

You must be Tasmanian-based, Hobart area preferred.


  • a male who enjoys intensity
  • a male who enjoys focus
  • a male who enjoys worshipping his Mistress
To contact me, either join this blog or find me on FL.



Anyone want to suck my cock?

Kneel and lick, you know you want to...

You want to know what makes me wet?

Hurting people...consensually of course!

I get fucken turned on from beating males through various impact methods, such as, impact play.  I love to cane, flog, paddle and face slap.  It truly is sexually stimulating for me however I do not need to orgasm after play as it is not a need for me, or even a want.  I am mentally and emotionally turned on from hearing the whimpers and seeing the tears of some males.  So fucken delicious.

Thursday 5 February 2015

Feb 2015 - Primal state

This blog will focus on my primal side; the sadistic and dark sexuality within me, and any posts relating to the primal state will be shared here.